Take a moment and imagine the power you would have once you become an expert at finding a woman's G-Spot … at will.
Once you learn how to instantly find her G-Spot with the same ease as you would turn on your car stereo, than you will become her "Go To Guy" for sexual pleasure.
A man who can immediately find his woman's G-Spot is a definite "keeper". She will never let you go and even if you did end the relationship with her, she will always remember the ecstasy she experienced at your hands and she will forever be disappointed with how her future lovers compare to you.
Most men have no idea where the G-Spot is.
Believe it or not, some men still believe the G-Spot is a theoretical potential or a figment of a woman's imagination. These men are very ignorant of the female anatomy and possess a "know it all" attitude that is not only a sure indication of an poor lover but also a sign of an inflexible, self absorbed and boorish romantic partner.
Remember guys, you are not women and the best thing you can do is keep an open mind, ask, experiment and never, ever assum anything. And what worked on one woman does not work on every woman.
Every woman has a G-Spot located in her vagina about 1/3 of the way in, on the upper wall. The G-Spot position is slightly different from one woman to the next – but not by far. She may even ejaculate with constant and consistent G-Spot stimulation, although ejaculation should only be a pleasant side effect and not your goal.
Very Important: Be sure to wash your hands with soap and clip and file your finger nails before you insert them inside a woman's vagina!
Apply a little lubricant on your fingers before exploring her vagina. Be sure to only use water soluble lubricants designed for sexual activities with women. These are not the multi-purpose, double duty lubricants you see in the drug store.
Feel for changes in texture of the vaginal walls. Her G-Spot will feel a little different from the rest of her vaginal canal – but the change will be very subtle unless she is already very aroused.
The area should feel a little raised and spongy. Turn your palm upwards and use your fingers to massage this area with a very gentle "come here" motion.
Most guys will jab her vagina in and out with a stabbing motion. Although this may pleasure her some, you are not directly stimulating her G-Spot.
Think about those old black and white romance movies where the lady is really beckoning the hero, with her fingers, to "come up and see me sometime". Use that same "come here" motion to stimulate her G-Spot.
Be patient and pay close attention to her reactions. This is a spot of the body seldom given any attention, so the layer of tissue over it is tough and protective. As you activate this spot, it may raise and bundle. This is the sign she is becoming increasingly more aroused.
Take your time. But if you really want to speed things up, use a topical female heightener (cream applied to the vaginal area) to increase blood circulation and sensation in the vaginal area and make her more receptive to sexual stimulation.
You may even want to experiment with a curved or elongated tipped vibrator specifically made for G-Spot stimulation.
Do not get discouraged if you do not get instant results. Keep practicing. The more you practice, the faster you will find her G-Spot and bring her to orgasm. Like everything else in life, practice makes perfect.